He Talks About Sex Regularly. A lot of girls make the mistake of reading just one text and jumping to conclusions. They joke a lot and show their humorous side through text. RELATED: Types Of Couples That Make You Cringe If your dude has done most of these 21 things then, sorry, but you’ve already lost him. 1. The first thing they do after wake up is texting you, and they mentioned about it. It's the Signs of a Shy Girl Crush On You. They ask for your opinion regarding his little problems. He may have gone alone or with some friends—it’s not only damning if he went with another girl. She might text you when she needs a ride, when she needs something delivered or picked up or even just because she just needs you to talk to a mutual friend for her. The 22 Biggest Signs A Guy Likes You When He’s Texting You 1. If he takes hours or even days to text you back, he’s either busy with another girl or he’s not that into you. Regardless of how elaborate his excuse for not getting back to you is, it’s a clear sign he’s not serious about you. Instagram informs you that he went to that art exhibit you told him you were dying to go to. He Talks About What You’d Be Doing If He Was There. Chances are nowadays, if a guy is not in a committed relationship with you, he's probably dating and talking to lots of other women, just like you should be talking to other guys as well. Talking about sex may be sweet and you also like it. No one wants to deal with the flakey, eternally MIA guy. You need to be sure of his antics which is why we suggest you use a spying software. If he doesn’t tell you who he’s talking to or what he’s doing and gets mad if you ask him or happen to glance at his phone, this is a red flag. When we talk about affairs, we often categorize them as emotional, physical, or both. In case he often shows off a lot about how many girls he has dated with before you, or how many girls he has slept with before you, he is surely a player. Yuck. Just because you saw your boyfriend texting another girl doesn’t mean he’s up to something. They always say stuff like what will they do if they were there with you. When a girl doesn’t like you at all she won’t text you for any reason, but if you are still her friend she might only text you when she needs something from you. A man who’s 100% into the relationship and doesn’t have another woman in the mix will have nothing to hide. So your husband talks to another woman, and it hurts you, but he doesn’t see why it does. That’s helpful to some extent. A man may think he’s being sneaky when he’s got one woman on the line while he reels in another, but we’ve seen through them and know exactly what they do when they’re interested in someone else. If he’s always saying things like, “If I was there, we would…” Well, then there’s a really good chance he likes you. He might be talking to a friend or having a chit chat with one of his buddies. A good place to start is with one of the more obvious signs he’s interested through text. However, if talking about sex is the only thing he talks all the time, it may be irritating. A lot of wives reach out to me asking what they might be doing wrong because their husbands are talking to other women and they think it’s okay.. By talking, I don’t mean a normal or passing conversation, but a closer relationship that rattles the woman in the marriage relationship. If he hasn't said the words, "I'm not seeing anyone else," don't assume he isn't.